pizza

Went to dinner yesterday with old friends.  Dined at Green Lantern Pizza.  Shared antipasto salad (just ok) and small pizza (good).  The gentleman had only the salad.  There were 4 pieces of pie between 3 of us.  The women and I each had a slice (which was probably enough combined with the ample salad).  There was a single slice remaining.  After a short pondering, I asked her if I had to fight her for it.  She shook her head and  grabbed it up.  I was the last one chomping away feeling stupid and embarrassed while the other diners were wiping their mouths.  But I ate it anyway.  Still feeling stupid 8 hours later.  Pizza is my addictive downfall and has always been my downfall.

Left in a downpour and it rained all night.  Harvested my first tomato this morning
from a wet bush.  Presenting this year's front yard flowers.

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Let's get Physical

 

Went for my semi annual physical yesterday.  She told me I was basically ok and redressed my wounded arm from a recent fall.  We had a discussion about getting old.  She is a young woman somewhere in her thirties and fed me the suggestions  she should about socialization, hobbies etc.  Had the usual standard bloodwork done and sent off to the lab.  I base my life on the measurement  known as A1C which is blood glucose levels averaged over a 3 month period.  Yesterday,  mine was elevated.  I know in part it was because of lifestyle and eating choices.  There were times in my life when it would be devastating news.  This time, I knew this was coming because of choices made over the past 6 months.  I needed a wake up call to clean up my act and get my shit together.  After having this condition for over 25 years, I know what to do.  Now I have a reason.  Don't  know why, but I am relieved.

With respect to my continuing saga of tomatoes, I now have a couple that are blushing pink.  Cannot tell you the  bliss this brings me after so many failures to grow this fruit.  Andrew's farm is doing well too with a variety of vegetables, including potatoes and yellow squash.  There is something quite satisfying about growing your own food.  During WWII families planted victory gardens because crops were feeding soldiers.  In so many ways this is a great idea.  

Reviews (with a bored sigh)

Completed the third series of Somebody, Somewhere offered on HBO Max.  This is observational show about a group of misfits lead by Bridget Everett in Manhattan KS (a real place).  The characters are gay, straight, trans, religious and fat.  This is a wonderfully quirky program filled with love of friendship and intimacy.  In some ways it is a true look at small town America and worthy of your viewing.

Started a British crime procedural called Dept. Q. Like most of the programs of this genre, it will take some time to figure out what's happening.  Crime Procedural is a term our media has coined.  In the fifties and sixties, we only had cops and robbers.  Our language evolves.

Having a pizza dinner tonight with some old friends.  Both of which have ongoing health challenges suitable with age.  Looking forward to the event.

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Reviews and tomatoes

 We viewed the complete series of Adolescence this past weekend.  While it was well acted with a superb cast, the story itself was disquieting yet thought provoking.  One would surmise that it was a coming of age tale, with young love and styles of apparel.  However is not and filled with trauma in a 13 year old's life.  I would love to recommend it but only if you need a gut punch of reality.  I am still pondering the story.

Have a plethora of green tomatoes on my bushes and hoping for a blush of color soon.  This is the most success I have had with growing anything in a while.  Next season, I will expand my containers because there is enough sunshine in this spot maybe adding cucumbers and Japanese eggplants.

Andrew, Stephanie and the kids went on adventure to Cleveland this weekend, staying at an Airbnb in the area.  Admittedly, I am a dinosaur and would have headed to the Rock Hall of Fame.  Today's teens probably have no interest in the performance attire of Mick Jagger of a film of Ray Charles singing "What I'd Say".  A long time ago, I took Andrew and some of his buddies there.  It brought back memories of my youth and really enjoyed the experience.

In another review, we watched Happy Gilmore 2,  it was stupid but entertaining with notable cameos by John Daly and Travis Kelce, amongst others.  This one, I would recommend.  

thats if for today, nothing too heavy.  

(latest from Frank)

Visitors

Had a great week with Paxton and Everett at the house.  We went to the Nature Center at Kensington park for the bird feeding and to be chased by sandhill cranes.  Had a cookout with the brothers Jon and Andrew.  With no additional bedrooms, they slept on the couch and a blowup mattress on the floor.  Katey came over with Frank the tank one afternoon.  He got along with everybody, just so big he moves the furniture.  The best time was had at the Royal Oak splash pad with the giant bucket filled up that is periodically dumped on the kids below.  All the participants went nuts!  What a wonderful place this is.  Kids can get wet running through the spayed water.  No fear of drowning and parents more at ease.  Kids are having a wonderful time, safely.  They should have more of these.  Maybe one could be installed at the senior apartments with lukewarm spray.  I would love to see 

The president wants to change the name of the Kennedy Center to be named after his current wife.  Please list her accomplishments below.  You won't need much room.  All decisions he makes are based on his whim. Out comes the Executive Order book. He must have a team of staffers building the binders and supplying the sharpies.  Stephan gets the boot, in fact the concept of his show gets the boot after 33 years on the CBS network.  And Boom, the merger between Paramount and Skydance passes muster and is approved by the FCC without surprise or hint of corruption.  

This week alone, Ozzy, The Hulk, Malcolm Jamal Warner and Chuck Mangione passed.  It is hard to keep up with all the tributes thru the media. 

Ozzy seemed like a nice guy in real life as did Malcolm Jamal Warner.  Tough for me to say good stuff about Terry Bollea, as he was an ardent MAGA supporter.  Know little about flugelhorn player Chuck aside from the one song that entranced us in the eighties "Feels so Good." 

Kind of have a day off today.  Cutting the lawn was on the agenda, but it rained and is raining now.  Probably need some stuff from Trader.  

Bought stuff for the boys that did not get consumed, namely ice cream that will have to be moved upstairs to their fridge because I would devour it.  Have some precooked bacon, tomatoes and cucumber that I will turn into a pasta salad adding some olives and roasted peppers. 

Harry is peering at me from his bed on the couch.  

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A ride on the lake

So, recently Judy and I went to Kensington Metropark for a boat ride supposedly with Shannon's group at New Gateways.  It was a stunning sunny day and we arrived a little early at Kent Lake and were shocked at the size of it and that we had never seen the place before; These are some of the shots as we arrived and were wandering around.

As it turns out, Shannon's team was not there today and since we made the trip, (quickly because I-96 was without construction). The staff invited us to stay and go on the boat ride

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anyway.  We did, with the lovely day.  This group has a variety of disabilities, mental and physical.  They are all adults most of which were happy to be there enjoying the day.  Judy got on and was seated on one of the bench seats next to Chris, a man with physical and cognitive challenges.  He was a big, slim guy about 5'11". I sat on the other side.  We shoved off and he had my hands in a death grip,  but seemed happy to be there.  At times his face was so close to mine and he was starring at me putting me ill at ease.

But as the trip wore on, he calmed and I got to listen to the guide talk about the park a the lake and the names of the small islands in the middle.  It was a lovely ride and I grew to appreciate how challenging it would be to care for a man such as this.  He is always moving and strong, doing his best to figure out the world.  While Shannon's mobility is limited, her personality is easy to communicate

with and always cheerful. Anyway, it was a good day.

Later that day, I spent some time with Frank (my dog buddy) on the back patio at Katy's house.  He is always thrilled to see me and despite his size and level of energy, we are best buds.

I won't be writing for a while.  My little guys from Middleville will be visiting from today thru Thursday.  Looking forward to seeing them and finding out what their summer has been thus far.

It breaks my heart that Stephen was canceled.  We have been watching him since the beginning for 10 years and before on the Colbert Report. He will land somewhere and we will be there to greet him warmly.

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Frank

So Frank the tank came to visit yesterday.  He clunked his way down the stairs and ran around sniffing the place out.  He is a people dog, ie. he loves people.  Full of energy and very strong, he can push you over with his 70 pounds.  He really had little interest in the little dogs the live here or the cat that is skulking around.  When he came up to give me a lick, the chair moved.  He needs a bed and some large, durable toys for chewing.  One cannot be too nice to him. lest you get trampled. When he sit with you on the couch, its like having a 12 year old child sitting on top of you.  But, I love him.  we could be best buds.

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A friend

I lost one of my oldest friends yesterday, we had known each other since I was ten and he was eleven.  His name was Allan Wyckhuys and we knew each other thru church.  He and his pal Tom Bernisconi served the first mass at St. Cletus Catholic Church in summer of 1960.  We got to know each other soon afterward. Al lived on Merideth street on the next block from Kelsey where we lived.  Warren was being split up in this period because of the tremendous growth and multiple schools being built.  The mass was celebrated at the South School gym with folding chairs for the attendees.  My dad was not yet a Catholic but would soon convert based on a faith learned at this church.  

In later years after high school, we worked together at United Shirt, a seller of casual mens wear.  I learned to smoke cigarettes there with Al and all the other employees.  It was a minimum wage job but that was ok since all I needed was a few bucks to spend.  

Al was a voracious saver,  having money from the paper route and on into this employment.  He was the only guy I ever knew that paid cash for his new car, a 1967 green Dodge Dart.  He marched into the dealership with is father, decided on the vehicle and brought with him 20 neatly folded $100 bills.  The salesman did not want the deal to go through.  But Al's dad, looking at a showroom with no customers,  convinced him to make the deal for $2000.  

He graduated from Warren High School a year before me.  I finished up at Charles Stewart Mott the following year,1968.  That summer, Al and old friend Tom took me on a road trip to Washington DC with a final destination of Ft. Lauderdale FL.  These were both really good, trustworthy guys and my parents knew they would look out for me.  We took a guided tour of our nations capital and got rained out,  then drove to our final destination in the Sunshine State.  We found a place to stay for 7 dollars a night with coffee and donuts for free and had a splendid time.

I got reacquainted with my buddy when we were at Oxford Towers.  He started reading my blog and started one up for himself.  He had a long career in education and a very strong Lutheran faith,  a lovely wife, Joanne with 3 daughters and numerous grandchildren.  His was a life well lived. 

the Yoke of Aging

As I travel on the road of life and with time to think, I contemplate the concept of aging.  It is largely ignored by the media aside from the drug companies constant ads.  We become a more invisible population striding thru existence.  Seniors don't discuss the topic flipping to grandchildren or the weather or what was good at the restaurant last night.  The big elephant in the room is not brought up.  Relationships, while no longer physical, can be meaningful Patience can be fostered.  Kindness can be demonstrated.  

It is easy to become lost and lonely, even with loved ones present,  If kindness is a purpose, those feelings can dissipate.  

Son Jon is starting a new position this morning. I wish him every success in this new endeavor in heating and cooling industry.  Very proud of him for lots of reasons and I miss him due to the distance between us.  

this is todays breakfast, a cheese omelette with sautéed onions.  You have to cook the onions before adding the egg to take the edge off them. I have abandoned Franks Red Hot sauce for mild salsa whose flavor lends itself to the egg mixture.

Judy is off taking Marie to her track practice and I am getting ready to cut the grass.  My children tomatoes are loving the spot their in and I am looking forward to their consumption 

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Shipped to Haiti

It's another new day, quiet thus far.  We are going to Shannon's program this morning for a "Camp Day".  It will have lots of outdoor activities and the weather looks like it will cooperate.  Made a pasta salad to bring last night.  Sitting here eating my granola and raspberries.  We went to a virtual meeting last night with Lynn at New Gateways.  She presented information on funding, activities and staff increases in the program.  

There is an agency called Angels (something) that staffs group homes in our county.  These folks work hard to care for individuals that are both cognitively and physically disabled.  They cook, clean and care for these folks that cannot care for themselves.  This is hard, demanding work that goes on 24 hours a day.  Parents and guardians trust that their loved ones will be given the love and respect they deserve.  That being said, this organization employs Haitian workers that are here on legal work visas and have been here for some time, probably 7-9 workers. 

With the advent of crackdown on immigrants, the government is shipping these folks back to Haiti, their country of origin.  Bear in mind that these are not law breakers, but workers that provide important and vital services to a vulnerable population.  The agency will be left extremely short staffed.  It is difficult to fill these positions because they are low paying by our standards and conditions are sometimes not pleasant.  

I am outraged by this.  Not only is it unjust for the workers, but is puts vulnerable citizens (yes they are citizens) potentially in harms way.

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Weight

I am obsessed with weight, my own, not others  I step on the little scale every morning with restless anticipation of the results, even if there is even a 1 pound difference from the day before.  I have tomatoes on my plants, small but growing.  In all my tries previously, I failed to get actual fruit from the plants, despite all the efforts at feeding, watering and nurturing.  These guys are still green but I have high hopes for s lovely salad. 

The president's on again, off again romance with tariffs and his similar bromance with Putin tell similar tales.  This guy seems to wake up each morning and say, "what am I going to do today? I read this morning that he wants to be included with Manny, Moe and Jack on the Pep Boys logo.

He is supposed to be leading our republic. How stupid is that?

Riverfront

Have you ever noticed that there are drivers that are compelled to back in to parking spots? It generally takes at least two moves to accomplish this.  it takes up more time and a yet at little more to straighten out the vehicle.   Also have noticed that I relish in the pause afforded by "No Turn on Red" signs in right lanes.  You can take your hands off the wheel and pause because you cannot proceed with no one else bitching at your choices and look around you with and generally say fuck it to yourself.

(My grave look.)

I have always been a fan of humor in a sentence.  There is a comic that is a senior citizen, Andy Hudgens,  An old graying guy, bent over, hanging onto the mike stand for support, sitting on a stool.   He opens his set with "I just paid off my student loans".  It's the perfect, poignant line that captures a laugh.  The viewer can't help but smile.  

Judy and I took Eli and Marie to the Detroit Riverfront yesterday afternoon.  It was sunny and lovely.  We stopped at Panera, had a snack and moved on .  I have learn to force myself to tell my walking partners to slow down or pause.  My ego is fueling my compulsion to keep up, even though I am leaning forward and heading for a fall.  I could always tell them to go ahead and stop for a minute, which would be a smart idea.  Need to be seen as smarter, not lesser.

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Tomatoes

At least my tomato plants seem to be thriving.  This is about my fourth attempt to have a harvestable crop.  Was able to get the plants for a buck a piece from Northern Lights.  They love this spot in the yard. 

The dicks in Washington have passed the leader's BBB.  We have all read or heard the damage it will cause the most vulnerable in our population.  The senator from Alaska sold the wellbeing of these folks down the river for a few nuggets of advantage for her state.  This is transactional politics at is worst.  

I was out cutting up a branch for pickup next week.  My lovely neighbor Ernie across the street was out cutting his lawn. He paused and we got to speak a little.

Ernie is a veteran of the Viet Nam era.  He is an active volunteer at the VA hospital downtown.  We talked a little about his job on patrol in the middle of combat.  He carries the regret pf ending the lives of the so called enemy.  It comes in direct conflict with his Catholic faith which is still strong today.  Killing is not a Christian value.  Frankly, it took great courage to tell me that.  He is a fine man.

Another neighbor Chuck gave me a loper to use on this project.  I was struggling with a hand saw on this job trying to balance the branches on a little trash can.  These kind of neighbors are a gift in today's impersonal world. 

I have a confession  I went to McDonalds for lunch before my shopping trip.  I had a Big Mac meal.  I was completely underwhelmed. It was tasteless and the fries were undercooked.  I felt some shame and remorse as I ordered the food.  This stuff was the lifeblood of my youth quite long ago.  I know now that the nutritional value is lacking.  But, I did it anyway. Not returning anytime soon.

Gonna go to the Riverfront in the sunny weather today

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